So since I can't post any new photos, I went digging through my collection of old ones. Pre-Pixie pics in fact. I noticed that for someone who detests the corner, I sure seem to be in it an awful lot. But then I suppose that's the point really. If I enjoyed the corner (and I can't imagine that's even remotely possible) it wouldn't make such a fine addition to a spanking.
I also noticed that in all three photos that I posted, I'm in pajamas. I think pajamas and spankings go so very well together because there's nothing quite like being sent to bed with a hot bottom. It just seems that I got stuck with a bit of a detour to the corner first. Judging from the redness in my cheeks though, I'd say it's fair to reason that my bottom was still quite warm by the time I was allowed out of the boring corner and permitted to go to bed.
I had other bare bottom pictures of me in the corner or otherwise that I considered posting. But I refrained because some of them show a bit heavier marks than just a red glow. I've always been able to take firm spankings, but prior to being spanked quite regularly as I am now, I was far more prone to bruising. The very same hairbrush spanking that I can take now and walk away with only a hot red bottom would have left me with some very defined marks a few years ago.
I know that some people love to see bruises and to others it's a complete ick factor. I don't wish to share something that would scare anyone off so before I consider posting anything more than a pink to red bottom, I'd like to hear your feedback.
17 comments:
Hi amber,
Wonderful pictures. I love the corner in your pj's. I often love to get spanked right before bed. I find it helps me sleep a lot better. :)
I love any pictures that you have to share. I do enjoy red bottoms but I also enjoy the marks too. :)
BIG HUGS
padme amidala
Personally I just like to see a bright red glow. Black & Blue marks and welts may be nice to the spankee as a constant reminder, but it doesn't convey romance or passion. Black & blue marks push the envelope toward abuse in my book. I just want a glowing shade of red, one that can be reapplied when it starts to fade. :) But thanks for asking.
Why don't we see more spanking erotica that deals with getting shots in the butt? To me this was always a dreaded "punishment" for sickness.
Hi Pixie-
Sorry to hear about the posion ivy incident, and I hope that you recover real soon. Personally I love seeing spanking pictures of a glowing red hot bottom, but also a bottom that has it's marks on it as well. To me marks show the average veiwer what a well punished bottom looks like. I still have the dreaded marking problem myself and wonder what it would be like not to have them anymore, I think that I miss them.
Keep up the great work, I love bein a member of punishedbrats.
Hugs,
Alex
Hi Pixie,
I don't like marks at all. To me a well-reddened bottom is fine.
In her practice my wife has seen what "abuse" can do. We know that the underlaying tissue (under the skin) will get permanently damaged, due to too many hard spankings.
The body does show these black and blue signals as a warning: "You've gone too far!"
I'm aware that many spankees are kind of proud of their marks (evidence that they really can take a hard one), but a spanking should only be given in a context of respect and love... To me there's no need for proof of "Toughness".
I love to see firm old-fashioned spankings, resulting in red and glowing buttocks, but I love to see them virginally white again after a while. Punishment given. All is over and you're a great girl again.
Bruises that last for several days or even weeks are sending the signal: "Don't hit me anymore, my body has been harmed enough already!" Not a pleasant sight.
But this is only my opinion, Pixie.
Love and XXX, Funbun
Hi, Pixie!
PJs, a well-spanked bottom, and corner time--does it get any better than that? You should spend time there more often....
:-)
Even when I spank hard, I try to avoid bruising or marking the lady's bottom. Pink, red, a bright glowing red, a dusky rose color.....all fine and quite lovely. But bruises and marking--while considered a "badge of honor" by some and something others don't mind and even strive for--just don't do it for me.
Dr. Ken
It's easy to understand your ambivalence on your formerly most bruisable behind, Pixie. Those who have fair complexions and light skin often display their spankings with most vivid colors. I, frankly, enjoy seeing CONSENTING women display their marked behinds at the end of a spanking weekend party. It often gives nurturing guys an opportunity to be solicitous and provide balming lotion where it is most required.
My experience is that spanking girls often really enjoy the marks and mild bruising and love retelling the adventures that earned them those marks. Some girls are really unhappy that they no longer mark and wish they could!
So, include me in the apparent minority who would enjoy seeing a bruised pre-Pixie display stills from the embarassment of what happened to her bottom when she misbehaved and got caught before she began to be punished most regularly.
... but only if she is really proud of them and wants to show them off!!!!
Brad D.
Oh no!!! That's terrible. Oatmeal bath time....
As to your question, bruises don't offend me, but I prefer a nice shade of pink. Pretty much, if it involves your bottom, I'm in. ;) ::smack:: Oops, I mean ::love taps::
-Chloe
Hi Pixie,
I'm sorry to hear about the poison ivy. I hope it heals quickly. I know how unpleasant it is. The shot might be worth taking. It worked for me.
Count me among those who like a spanked bottom to be pink or rosey red, not black and blue.
Get well soon!
Vann
~~pinkish, to red, bottoms, are what I really prefer...
...but, I'll take a peek at whatever you'd post (wink*)
(Now, don't tell me, you got a poison Ivy rash on your bottom! Oh, Pixie!
Hope you're feeling better soon, in the end! [b~~imagines, rubbing in the lotion, gently; smoothing over, softly, each uplifted,, raised, buttock.....
...where was I...
...oh, yes,
bring on those photos!]
xx,b.
padme - Isn't a bedtime spanking just the best?
007 - In my case the marks were just a case of a very fair skinned person unused to receiving any sort of regular bottom warming, getting a regular handspanking or hairbrush spanking no harder than I do now if even that much. No worries. It wasn't abuse, but I can understand how you'd be concerned that marks would give that idea.
Anonymous - I'm not sure. I'm guessing though it's because it's not something routinely, easily and most importantly safely practiced between spanking couples such as the other medical play / spanking crossover, rectal temperature taking.
Alex - thank you Alex. Glad to have you as a member. :) One advantage of no longer marking would be not having to worry about someone seeing evidence of your spanking say peeking out of your bathing suit and having to come up with creative explanations such as taking a fall down on your butt rollerblading ... repeatedly.
Funbun - It's not a matter of toughness, it's as I said above, just a matter of being fair skinned and not having built up a tolerance to spanking at that point. Even mild spankings would leave me marked and even today while my bottom can withstand quite a bit without bruising, if I lightly tap the coffee table with my leg, I'm left with a big ol' mark for a week.
Dr. Ken - I can understand the badge of honor concept as when I first considered working in the industry, my main exposure to spanking websites had been the Real Spankings network of sites which at that time emphasized marks. I thought that's what was desirable and necessary in order to be considered as a spanking model. I'm so glad to have learned since that's not the case as I no longer mark up easily and I think I would have burned out long ago trying to achieve marks with every shoot. I'm very happy to now be able to take darn good spanking and have a hot red glow to show for it.
Brad - I can't say that I'm really either proud nor embarrassed to show the pictures with my marks. Some of the pictures are just neat or have interesting stories behind them, but I'd hate to scare anyone off or make it seem I was badly beaten due to once having an easily bruised bottom. Based on the majority of the feedback I think I'll keep these pictures locked up I'm afraid.
Chloe - Haven't tried the oatmeal bath, but Caladryl is my best friend at the moment!
Ha!! Love taps, my butt!! Oh wait ... hmmm.
Vann - I'm taking the Prednisone tablets. I was told the shot would speed things up a only a few hours and comes with the risk of leaving a dent in my butt at the injection site. I'll take pills over a posterior pot hole any day.
b - I thankfully do not have poison ivy on my bottom. But I do have it all over both legs and all the way up the backs of my thighs which is nearly as bad! I'm a bit nervous that the poison ivy will leave me marked more than a spanking these days. :-S Let's hope that's not the case though.
So all in all it looks like pink / red is the way to go for most of you. I'll keep those pre-pixie pictures from the days before my mark resistance training safely tucked away. :)
I had never heard of poison ivy before, but have now looked it up. It sounds horrid, and not unlike our stinging nettles in uk in its effects. I hope you are feeling better - presumably your degree and former vanilla job help you in knowing what to do to relieve the distress. As for friends "letting" firends roll in poison ivy - how exactly do they stop you unless they are there are recognise the plants?
But for the main question of your blog - there are marks and marks. A neat set of tram lines from the cane are one thing - and a "five bar-gate" can show skill on part of the spanker and need not necessarily last long on the spanked! but the vicious black and blue bruising that comes from a spanking that can only be described as sadistic is quite anoter matter and should have no place. Indeed there is a case for bringing charges of causing actual bodily harm when certain tolerances are exceeded: eg the level of spanking, the tolerance of the spankee's skin (that comes from experience as you indicate - he more often spanked, the more tolerance); the security felt by the spankee and the relationship of trust that should determine the outcomes. On the whole though for public showing, surely red is OK, black and blue far less so.
As to the pyjama spankings - you probably remember the situations - but morning spankings may also be in pyjamas, when there is not the comfort afterwards of going to bed - but after corner time getting dressed and getting on with the day....
Pixie,
Seems you've already made your decision, but I'll put my $0.02 in anyway. I pretty much agree with Cloe:
bruises don't offend me, but I prefer a nice shade of pink. Pretty much, if it involves your bottom, I'm in. ;)
I like mainly coloration, but don't mind a little marking. I don't find major marking and bruising personally appealing, but have no objection to heavier play as long as it's consensual.
Mark
Winchester - poison ivy is quite nasty. Nothing like stinging nettles. I experienced them one time as a child while visiting Germany and while it made me run home crying to my mom, I think I'd take a run in with them over poison ivy any day.
I'm not one to want to sport frightening bruises that would make one cringe, but I do on occasion (and more so a few years ago) end up with oval marks from a hairbrush say rather than just a uniform red glow. But I am worried about offending or scaring people and so I'm erring on the side of caution.
Mark - Thank you. :) Definitely consensual. Maybe what I might consider doing in the future is making a text link to any picture that has more than a pink-red hue to it so that those that are curious can see and those that don't wish to view it, don't have to. What do you think?
what I might consider doing in the future is making a text link to any picture that has more than a pink-red hue to it so that those that are curious can see and those that don't wish to view it, don't have to. What do you think?
I think that is an excellent idea!
Hi.I'm a person who likes spanking.If you would spank someone bare butt,Underwear on,or pj's?
Hi Pixie!
Loved to see you standing in the corner. I know you don't like cornertime...but the ppics are great!!!!
Ich hoffe dir geht es gut...
Emma
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