I’ve been very honest with my boyfriend about my spanko-ness from the start. In fact, it was on our second date ever that I told him that not only am I a spanko, but I’m also a spanking model. I forget exactly how exactly it came up in conversation – it was a bit more tactful than “I get my butt smacked on the internet. Pass the sugar.” – but all I can remember now is sitting there in the coffee shop holding onto my cup hoping to still my trembling hands. I avoided his gaze and held my breath as I waited for him to respond.
Some people had advised me to wait and thought I was absolutely nuts for revealing this side of me to a vanilla so early on. But I didn’t want to start off a relationship with lies and be forced to make up stories about where I was going when out of town for a shoot. I have an honesty complex and would be caught in an instant anyway.
Thankfully I wasn’t rejected. He didn’t recoil in horror. And although this was a whole new world he didn’t know existed, he was pretty open minded once I assured him that spanking and only spanking takes place on the shoots I do. He was actually intrigued by the secret side of this otherwise shy, quiet girl he had met.
Over time I slowly let him into my world more and more. I showed him some of my pictures … my collection of schoolgirl uniforms … the Brats website. He was cool with it all and let me do my thing but didn’t seem to be really into it himself. I wasn’t going to push though. I counted my blessings for having found someone I cared for so much and connected with on many levels that was ok with me being spanked by others. He would sometimes spank me playfully upon request, but it just isn’t the same if the top’s heart isn’t in it.
But recently something changed. Without warning he’d land a good smack on my bottom as I tied my shoe or walked next to him. He’d sting my bottom with a little rope he carries his keys on as we walked to the car and chuckle at my surprise. Of course I had to test this new phenomenon a little more. I teased. I bratted. This weekend, he took the bait.
He bent me over his knee, flipped up my skirt, lowered my panties and spanked me. I mean really spanked me! I was surprised at how firmly he was landing the smacks. I kicked, squirmed, and yelped … I couldn’t help it. Between the sting and the shock, there was no way I could stay still.
Of course my cat Peanut heard the commotion and was very upset by the noise. :( I half jokingly suggested my boyfriend grab the cane from my closet because it was much quieter. I thought for sure he’d decline and that would be the end of it, but much to my surprise, he picked it up and gave me a few strokes (pretty decent, well placed ones at that for a novice). But he quickly decided that he much preferred the hand to butt contact and resumed spanking, promising to buy Peanut some Fancy Feast to make it up to her later.
Seems he’s not quite so vanilla after all. He told me that not only does he greatly enjoy spanking me, but that I’m deserving of every smack I get. Can you imagine that? Yes, I think I’m lucky. Well spanked and very lucky.
11 comments:
Darling, Thank you for sharing you story. I must admit that I don't belive in Vanillas. I think they are but people who don't know they are kinky as of yet. I think Penny Birch explanied the spanking thing best in her book ' The Indignities of Isabelle'
“ There is something about a girls bottom that simply cries out for chastisement; partly the beautiful shape, but mainly, I think, the fact that a woman’s bottom exhibits her sexuality in a way that brooks no denial.” I defy anyone to define the spanking fetish more eloquently than that.
David Pierson
Oh it just warms my heart to know that you are getting spanked when you deserve it :-) Thank you for bringing that joy to me!!
Thanks for sharing that. I, too, have had some wonderful experiences with "vanilla" boyfriends (and some not-so-good ones, too). I firmly believe in being up-front about my spankoness and see no sense in waiting. I'm not going to change--nor is my love of spanking--and I see no point in holding back or lying about it. I'm glad this worked out so well for you! If his hand ever gets tired, he can borrow one of my paddles or straps :D
Ruby
On your cute little derriere, I'd use an open hand too :o)
YAY, Pixie! I think it's awesome that he was so accepting of who you are, but the fact that he is starting to really enjoy the things you do is fabulous! YAY YOU!
Em
Hi Pixie,
thankyou for sharing cutie:) I am so happy for you:)sounds like your a very lucky girl!
xoxoxoxox
David - I'm very thankful that my bf is a little bit of proof towards your belief that there aren't any true Vanillas.
Richard - Soooooo glad my sore bum gives you that warm and fuzzy feeling! Hmmm ... warm and fuzzy ... sounds like your next costume.
Ruby - Thank you! You're right. We can't change ourselves so honesty is often the best policy. But I think I'll keep your offer to share your implements a secret for now. :)
Gadfly - Thank you very much gadfly. That's so sweet of you to say.
Emilie - Thanks Em. It's worked out better than I could have imagined. :)
Cutiepie - Thanks for sharing my joy. I must have been a good girl somewhere along the line to be so lucky.
Being bold and brave enough to be a spanking model kind of left us with the impression that, well... you were the exact same in your real life. Obviously not a very realistic view though. Of course you have the same sort of concerns about sharing your spanking interests that almost all spankos have. They're even large in your case, because spanking is part of your job.
You obviously have a good way of explaining spanking though! Looks like you very well might have turned your boyfriend into a new spanko!
:)
~Todd & Suzy
Todd & Suzy, behind the school uniforms and paddles, I'm just a regular person complete with fears, flaws, and insecurities. And as anyone who has met me in real life can tell you, I can definitely be a mischievious fun-loving little brat (grin), but I can also be shy and am quick to blush (from both ends) depending on the situation.
I think my boyfriend is well on his way to becoming a bonafide spanko. Never can have enough spankos in the world. :)
Pixi-
I applaud you for telling your boyfriend about your other side so early in the relationship, it makes things so much easier in the long run. I too told my husband on our second date and he has turned into as big of as a spanko as myself. We have had five wonderful spankfilled years togeather and looking forward to even more spankings over the years.
Wonderful post, pixie !
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