I'm back from my beach vacation. It was absolutely wonderful but seemed to fly by at warp speed! I have a bunch of pictures to sort through and I'll post some of them here in a few days once I've had a chance to get caught up on things.In the meantime, here is a little something I wrote on the looooong car trip home on the topic of the spanky dance. In an email conversation I was having with Brad D. a couple of weeks ago now, he mentioned the "spankdance" in reference to the wiggling and squirming a spankee often does when receiving an intense and/or pleasurable spanking. When I think of the "spankdance" or spanky dance as I call it however, I think of the kind that the spankee may perform once she is allowed to stand up following a particularly stingy spanking.
Half bunny hop, half Irish jig, the variation of the dance I've been known to perform involves me bouncing around the room gripping my scorched bottom. I'm not entirely sure what purpose the dance serves other than entertainment for the spanker, but it seems to be an instinctive movement. I guess it's similar to when you stub your toe and are compelled to speed limp in circles uttering colorful phrases. Neither actually alleviates the pain, but it's psychologically soothing and provides a momentary distraction at the very least.
My spanky dance performances have so far been limited to when my boyfriend gives me a hard yet playful spanking with his heavy hand or one of his favorite stingy little paddles. I suppose this is in part because I'm comfortable enough around him to show this silly and vulnerable side of myself. It takes a lot of trust to place the fate of one's bottom into another's hands, but even more to be spanked, half naked, and hop around the room like a jumping bean ... a toasted jumping bean.
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Wow. Another great essay filled with insights that you couldn't get anywhere else. (HUGS) Thanks, Pixie, and welcome home. :-)
Hi, Pixie, and welcome back!
It's disgusting how fast vacation time goes by, isn't it?
I just got back from the Chicago Crimson Moon spanking party this weekend. I think I saw a few variations of this dance. I may have even helped instigate one or two.... :-)
Looking forward to your pictures!
Hugs and spanks,
Dr. Ken
Hi Pixie,
The good thing about holidays passing too quickly is that those normally have been good..! :-)
Nice thoughts about spanking dances. I LOVE to color a couple of lovely cheeks and I guess that many spankers, when a dance ensues, hope the dance ends up with the spanked girl jumping into their beds...
Time for comforting... :-)
Love and XXX, Funbun
WHERE did you get that ensemble?
I hope you're planning on being a ballerina for Halloween and greet the tricker treaters wearing it.
Loooooooooooovely.
You should do a video in that outfit! Maybe you won't do the spankydance for us, but I'd love to see you as a naughty dancer getting spanked.
I couldn't agree more - about trusting your bottom with someone else, but even more to trust them to spank you half naked and then watch you jump around. I squirm during spankings but nothing like how I squirm when my boyfriend spanks me. I feel ok with him seeing me itch and wriggle like a worm :) and forget afterwards, no one but him has ever seen my spanky dance!
Thanks for posting this, Pixie. You are so special.
Brad D.
That is certainly an outfit that should be worn while doing the "Spanky dance"
Lovely my Lil' Pixie
007 - Thank you. :)
Dr. Ken - Yup. There are two things that seem to always be true when it comes to vacation; 1) it goes by too quickly and 2) when you get home, you need a vacation to rest up from the vacation!
Sounds like you had a great time at CCM!
Funbun - My vacation certainly was very nice. :) Spanking dances are often fun and can lead to many different things to follow.
b - eBay of course! I always wanted to take ballet as a kid, but was already involved in too many extracurricular activities. So to make up for it, I bought myself a standard ballet ensemble and wear it when doing the NYC ballet workout. LOL! I chickened out of wearing a costume to hand out candy. I can only imagine the impression I'd make on the neighborhood with some of my options.
calicali - I'd love to. I always wondered though how to how to bare the bottom properly in a leotard, but I guess I could just expose the cheeks as I did for the picture.
katie - Trust is so key to making a spanking a positive experience. That's wonderful that you have that in your relationship with your boyfriend as well. :)
Brad - Awww. Thanks. :)
Poppa - Heheh. When dancing, dress the part!
When I first saw the pic I thought it was a thong leotard. I'd love to you get spanked in a thong leotard!
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